The one thing that I have found out about myself is that I dont give people the praise they deserve often enough. It is very easy to begin to take your spouse for granted after years of marriage, and to just assume that they know how you feel about them. Everyone needs a pat on the back for a job well done, and your wife is no different.
It is not enough for you to assume that she knows how you feel about her is not enough. She needs you to tell her. She needs to hear you say she's beautiful, that you love her, and how wonderful you think she is. And don't forget to also acknowledge and praise her for doing all of the little minor tasks she performs daily with no thanks. She doesn't just do these things because she wants to, so make sure you tell her thank you.
Take the time to notice and praise her for the little things that often get taken for granted. Whether she has brought you a cup of coffee, or has brought in the morning paper for you to read, or has reorganized a room, it is important to acknowledge her and tell her you appreciate all of her hard work.
Letting your partner know how much you appreciate her will likely become a catalyst for change in your marriage. Doing these things will not only improve things, but you will probably notice that she will begin to compliment you too. Working together as a team is the only way to conquer problems in the marriage.
This new encouraging and nurturing environment will help both of you to be more effective as a team. Begin complimenting your wife today and you will quickly notice a new and improved atmosphere around your home. It will make a difference you'll enjoy.