Mistakes with your ex can cost you any chance of saving your relationship you may have had! Your break up may have left you sad and disillusioned, but no matter how unjust it may have seemed, the only way to give yourself the best chance of fixing your relationship is to take positive action to avoid some very "Killer" mistakes.
The 'Fatal 5" mistakes you must avoid making with your ex at all costs are:
* Killer Mistake With Your Ex: - Continually apologising and saying sorry for things you may have done. When you apologise over and over again it makes the apology seem shallow. If you have reached break up stage your situation is very serious so you must stop continually apologising immediately. There will be the right time for a sincere apology later on.
*Killer Mistake With Your Ex: - You must never offer to "Change for good"! Never! You cannot avoid being who you are and if you make promises you cannot uphold about becoming someone different you will really wreck your relationship when you cannot fulfil them.
*Killer Mistake With Your Ex: - Don't try and tell them you are their "one and only, true love!" You have to admit, you would not be broken up if they thought that at the moment! To take this approach is a major mistake. It is a weak move and makes you look like you will say anything to get back together. People decide who their true love is in their own way and don't appreciate in the least an ex telling them they are it!
* Killer Mistake With Your Ex:- One of the most dangerous tactics you can employ is to try and convince them it wasn't your fault! With the raw emotions that accompany a break up still being fresh, you must avoid saying you are not at fault at all cost. Don't place blame on anyone's shoulders! Common sense says you have both done or said something during the break up to get to where you are.
* Killer Mistake With Your Ex: - Stop Begging them to take you back! Begging is like emotional blackmail and will have the effect of suffocating the emotions of your ex. You will not gain any respect for being emotional and clingy so do not use this tactic !
How did you rate after reading the list of top 5 "Killer" mistakes you can make with your ex? How many of these tactics are you using? Experience shows that behaving in the way shown in the mistakes above will not help you make a successful reconciliation.
The five Fatal mistakes above only serve to make a relationship breakdown more certain. You need to take positive steps towards rebuilding your relationship rather than use negative tactics such as those that are listed here.
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